Category Archives: You and I Are Polar Opposites

You and I Are Polar Opposites Ep. 7: The overthinker and the non-thinker

We finally get to see what happened between Yamada and Nishi during the school festival. They even address less-than-fulfilling text conversations over the summer. It’s nice of Yamada to tell Nishi that she can make mistakes with him — that she can be stupid with him. Sure, that’s great. But if I recall correctly, his one-word replies to her long text messages were pretty much conversation killers. He kinda takes ownership of that? Some people are bad texters, and I know he wanted to have a phone call at one point. But it would been nice if he had been a little more explicit about what he could do to help her feel more comfortable.

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You and I Are Polar Opposites Ep. 6: New boyfriend meets old boyfriend

It’s school festival time, which means people from outside the school will be paying a visit. If you want to be dramatic, you can say that Suzuki’s past has come to haunt her, ooooh~! But it’s anything but the case. I always found this portion of the story to be a little odd. More specifically, people keep trying to act as though Suzuki has a romantic history with a former friend, but she doesn’t. She and this Oka guy were and are still friends, people suggested that they should date, he jokingly went along with it while expecting Suzuki to shoot him down, but she didn’t. We know how she used to be. She would read the room and get swept up with the flow. As a result, they agreed to date… without actually dating. There were no feelings involved. They held hands maybe once? She even deliberately turned away from Oka when he tried to kiss her, but he wasn’t even doing it ’cause he liked her. He was just going through the motions. From my Western sensibilities, nothing happened. But back in the present, Yamada says, “Hey, don’t pretend like you and Ricchan were never a thing.” What thing?

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You and I Are Polar Opposites Ep. 5: The coupling begins

We finally get a proper introduction to Nishi, and she’s personally pretty relatable. It’s not that you ever want to eavesdrop on the conversations around you, but we have ears. Even when you try to distract yourself, you can’t hear but hear things with those same ears. Luckily, her chatty classmates don’t seem to mind. They even try to loop her in, but she just can’t keep up with their tempo. In any other show, there would probably be a side plot where Nishi gets bullied by the popular kids, thereby forcing one of Suzuki’s friends to step in and save her, blah blah blah… then bam, romance. I’m just glad this isn’t that type of show. I’m not trying to deny that bullying exists, but from a storytelling perspective, I’m just so tired of it.

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You and I Are Polar Opposites Ep. 4: No summertime sadness here

It’s almost time for the local summer festival, but that also means it’s almost time for term exams. Naturally, Yamada gets the bright idea to coordinate a study session. It’s just funny how Tani rejects him with nothing more than a simple “no.” He doesn’t elaborate further. People usually do, because they want to be liked; they don’t want their friends to misunderstand them. After all, Yamada assumes Tani isn’t worried about the upcoming exams. Meanwhile, Sato is a little more cynical: “More like Tani-kun doesn’t see any merit in studying with us.” Only Suzuki knows the real answer, because she understands him.

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You and I Are Polar Opposites Ep. 3: Sometimes, it’s okay to give the people what they want

It has been pretty Suzuki/Tani-centric thus far, and for good reason: this is their love story, after all. But this week’s episode finally shares the spotlight with a couple of side characters, specifically the aptly named TairAzuma duo. Suzuki is the one who gives them this moniker, so perhaps this is a harbinger of things to come: a girl who keeps stumbling into bad relationship, and a guy who overthinks his relationships — what a pairing they would be.

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